It's Official!

I'm a Beeson! Well, I should probably clarify. When Marshall and I got married July of 2007, according to LDS church records, (I've been told these are the only ones that really count), I became Melissa Ann Beeson (Doesn't that look pretty?). Although my dad made a good solid effort to try to convince me to change to Melissa Prince Beeson, I held my ground and immediately began referring to myself as the former.
However, I had somehow managed to keep my Texas driver's license, with my original 16 year old picture and maiden name, the entirety of my BYU education (which seemed like a small eternity) and the years following that I remained a "permanent Utah residence", until it's expiration (which actually isn't until next month). In case you are wondering, I'm pretty sure that WAS a run-on sentence.
Until then, I had managed to make a lot of excuses for why I "couldn't" change my name yet. Mostly they were regarding plane reservations made in my maiden name therefore requiring my Texas driver's license, but mainly I was overwhelmed at the thought of making time to gather all the correct documents and stand in line to make it official.
Anyway, since I have been pregnant, I have felt guilty checking in at my doctor's appointments under my maiden name, with my very patient husband of a "different" name by my side. You see, even though I have been told that the legal marriage immediately "changes" my name for all intents and purposes, the hospital won't refer to me as Melissa Beeson until my driver's license does. So, now that I am over half way through my pregnancy, I have started having those "am I prepared?" dreams, mostly about the changing of my name. You see, I don't want "little girl Beeson" to accidentally be called "little girl Prince" because of my laziness. I am pretty sure Marshall would not enjoy that either.
So, I purposely made my plane ticket to Texas in March under the name Melissa Beeson, knowing this would force me to finally change my driver's license, and jokingly told Marshall that he was getting my name change for Valentine's day.
Yesterday I got ready, (a major event in my life these days), and gathered all the correct documents and had NO wait at the DMV to take a 25 question test and fill out ONE form and TADA... I am officially Melissa Ann Beeson! Yea!
If I could offer some advice to those procrastinating along these same lines... Don't go take a new driver's license picture while you are in the middle of your second trimester, I can eat a horse 24 hours a day phase! It isn't pretty!
Also, i would like to dedicate this entry to Valorie Hartman (Dudoich) :) !
And... I would like to apologize for my "pregnant mind" and the grammar it produces... or lack of!

Wake Up Call

Monday morning around 7 am I woke up to the friendly tune of "Country Roads" by John Denver.  No, I don't have one of those fancy alarm clocks that sing you awake, that is the ring tone I have set for my younger brother John.  I have to admit my first thought was, "Oh crap he wrecked my car".  However, I was pleasantly surprised to hear a calm, somewhat cheerful John on the line apologizing for calling so early. He hadn't wrecked the car, but he was at the hospital and the cheerful tone was due to the IV pain killers that he had just received for kidney stones! After I got the scoop and he assured me he was going to be ok, I made arrangements with work and headed down to Provo to pick him up.  We spent the rest of the day hanging around my house and laughing at his drugged state.  Unfortunately for John, it took most of the rest of the week for the pain to go away, but we enjoyed getting to spend the down time with him and watching him carefully ration his remaining pain pills for the "other" stone the doctor spotted on it's way! He's not so excited that he has entered the "kidney stone phase of his life" but we are glad it wasn't something more serious! 

What will you do?...

A commonly asked question these days is- What will you do with Charger when the baby comes? Yep, it's true, our dog thinks he's a person! And because he thinks he is a person, it's almost like we are having our second child not our first. It's all our fault, we admit it. It probably started the night we first got him when we thought it would be cute and funny to drive through Taco Bell in celebration (get it? he's a chihuahua). The drive through employee fell in love at the site of our little mascot and offered some meat for him. That was his first people food and it was all over from there.
The first night was much like Lady and the Tramp. We were back and forth from the laundry room all night long. Our friends assured us that would stop after a few nights but apparently we no will power because Charger sleeps with us.

When we take him places, (yes, we take him around town with us), he rides on our shoulders. We wouldn't want him to miss out on any of the scenery.

I vowed not to be the girl with the dog in the purse, but as you probably already know or can guess, I have the purse and he happily travels in it.
He goes with us on vacation, to the grocery store (sometimes), to the mall, to run errands, and he has even been in a few restaurants undetected thanks to the dog bag. I know, don't judge.
He has a great personality and is all in all a pretty easy pet despite how high maintenance I make him out to be, but you can understand why these habits might make it hard to introduce a baby into the picture.
So, for the last half of my pregnancy we are going to try our best to undo the horrible parenting we did with Charger for the first year and a half of his life. We will see how it goes.... wish us luck!

It's a Girl!

We went to the doctor yesterday and found out we are having a girl! She was very modest at first and wasn't going to let us take a peek. The nurse poked around for a while and continued taking pictures of every other body part she could see but was hesitant to tell us what she thought we were having till she got a good shot. After some persuasion the nurse fessed up that she thought we were looking at "little girl parts" and Marshall and I cheered, after which Baby Girl Beeson opened wide to let us confirm. I guess she figured if that's all we wanted she would cooperate. We can't blame her for wanting to be a little lady. We left with several pictures. Marshall even commented that it looked like we spent the afternoon in a photo booth with the roll of pictures we left with! We will post one as soon as we can find a scanner. In the meantime, everything else seemed good and healthy and I appear to be right on track for my estimated due date of June 10th. We are pretty sure we have her named already but we want to take the weekend to think about it before we make it official.

Another exciting first yesterday... Although I have been feeling those little tickles and bubbles in my belly for a few weeks now, I felt her kick with my hand for the first time late last night!

I'll be better... I PROMISE!

I've found that since I have started this blog I have not kept up with it the way I had originally planned. I thought I would be so anxious to post things that I would run out of things to post. In fact, some of you will remember that I stated in the very first post that I would back post the first year of our marriage as a form of an online journal.... that is yet to come.
I originally was avoiding updating my blog back in October, while still anxiously waiting for new posts from all of you, because I had no faith in our ability to keep the pregnancy thing a secret for any amount of time. I tried to repent for my month long absence by posting the whole months events at once, but then quickly went back to avoiding it.
When we finally told friends and family our news we were heading into the holiday season. So I dutifully posted the ultrasound pic and a brief explanation/apology and in my mind I told myself I would be better and that there would be plenty to blog about during the holidays.
Well, the holidays have come and gone, and we were pretty busy like all of you I'm sure. Every time I thought about posting a blog it seemed someone beat me to it. Don't get me wrong, I don't think anyone has the exclusive rights to blogging about a particular event... I more used it as an excuse for myself not to mimic everyone else's blogs, you know, I was procrastinating, justifying, avoiding. I actually thought several times of creating posts sending you to blogs I have linked to mine to let you know what we have been up to. If you have time in your life and ever get anxious for some news from us, it is sometimes helpful to visit our family members blogs. They post pictures and everything!
That leads me to another excuse ... pictures! It seems I have it somewhere in my pregnant mind that you can't create a post without a picture! I tried to tell Marshall a few weeks ago that we need a better camera. He informed me our camera is fine and actually not too old and that the problem is that we always rely on others to take pictures for us. It's so true. We really take family and friends for granted that way. We are never the ones with the camera.
So, now that you have heard them all.... NO MORE EXCUSES! I PROMISE I'll be BETTER! From now on were we go so does the camera! And some of you family and friends may get the smallest feeling we are mimicking your post because chances are that any shared event we will be the last to write about! In the mean time, some of you will be called upon for holiday pictures because although a lot were taken this season, none were taken by us!
If you braved it through this rambling....look forward to beautiful posts and pictures this year from the Beesons!

The Truth

The truth behind our minimal blogging in the month of October... we are pregnant!

With the news and the sickness, (I was feeling pretty crummy and then got a bad cold on top of it), it was pretty hard for us to keep it our little secret as long as we did. So we kept conversations short, and many of you may have noticed we didn't call or write quite as much. I have to hand it to Marshall, he was a champ about keeping the secret til we, (which means I), were ready to tell.

Anyhow, I am about twelve weeks along, all seems to be well, and the due date is June 10, 2009. Of course, there will be more news as we have it.

Our October

We have had a pretty busy October but no time to blog about it til now. So, we thought we would catch you up on the month in one entry.

At first, our month started out pretty uneventful. Then, one quiet night the adventure begain. I was sitting on the couch flipping channels and being lazy, when I decided I might want a little snack. I asked Marshall if he would kindly prepare me some grahmn crackers and milk. He agreed, but when he opened the pantry to he discovered that I wasn't the only creature that was craving that particular treat. There in my open package of grahmn crackers was a tiny little mouse helping himself. He had nibbled off the corner of the top cracker and looked as surprised as Marshall was.

We live near a couple of fields and discovered last winter that the mice look for warm places of refuge in cold weather. Little Charger cornered a few last winter and Marshall set some traps. We didn't see any after the traps were set so we thought we were ok.

Anyway, Marshall chased it around for a bit til it hid under the fridge. I screamed and ran and was unsucessfull in taking a picture.

Since we now had a ruined package of grahmn crackers and a clue as to what the little guys thought was tasty, we quickly re-set our traps with the damaged treats and decided to wait patiently for results. Long story almost over, we headed to bed for the night. While I was washing my face I heard a large crashing sound from the kitchen and some squealing, (Marshall swears mice cant squeal but I swear I heard it). I wasn't about to check out the comotion so Marshall and Charger went to check the traps without me.

I didn't ask for details, but Marshall assured me that our little mouse friend was now in the "Big Field in the Sky". We haven't seen any mice or traces of mice since.

The rest of our month goes as follows...

We watched conference with the family and spent all day Sunday munching on this fantastic spread. (October 5)

We celebrated Wayne (October 12) and Nate's birthday's (October 14) at Spencer's restaraunt downtown the Saturday before and ate some more yummy food. Then the next day we celebrated Wayne's birthday with a small family dinner.

Then a fabulous Suprise party Britt put together for Nate the day before his birthday. We ate this yumy spread! Noticing a theme for the month yet?

Followed by Brittany's Baby Shower (October 18).

This is the diaper cake Nicole helped me put together for the shower. Brittanie's mom made a ton of yummy food and her little sister helped me put up the decorations. We had a little scare earlier that week and thought that maybe Isaac was going to come early and crash the shower, but he waited til the next day to start making his way into the world!

Then YaYa Sisterhood night at my work the same day!

Two day's later baby Isaac came (October20)! Marshall and I were starting to feel a little sick so we made a brief appearance and wore some masks to meet him at the hospital, but didn't really get to hold him til Halloween.

He's so cute! Good job Nate and Britt!

The next week I spent most of my life in bed with a bad cold, sinus infection, flu or something. Whatever it was it took me down. The worst hit Marshall over the weekend so he powered through and went to work and took care of me.

Marshall was able to recover quickly enough to celebrate Brittanie's birthday (October 24) with his family. I was still sick enough to have to stay away. :(

We celebrated Halloween with Nate and Brittanie and her family. There we enjoyed a yummy themed dinner that included all kinds of spooky ingriedients. Here is the witches brew.

This is the "Cemetary Cake" Marshall saw on T.V. and volunteered us for. I didn't catch the recipe in time so we modified "Dirt Cake" and it turned out great. That's what I get for making him watch Good Things Utah with me in the morning.

Marshall and I didn't have it in us to dress up this year so Charger represented the family as Elvis.

And before we knew it the month was over! I will do better about keeping updated for November! We are looking forward to a trip to Texas over Thanksgiving to celebrate the holiday as well as William's baptism and all the Fall birthdays in my family we missed!